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Our mothers do so much for us in our everyday lives, even when we’re adults. Once they changed our diapers and then, as we got older, made our lunch for school. Today, they’re on hand with advice as we navigate the choppy waters of adulthood, from relationships to secret recipes. Sure, there’s a dedicated day to showing mom how much we care. But if you leave it until Mother’s Day to show your appreciation, you’re just following the herd. Why not break from the norm and surprise your mom with a day out at another time of year? Few people will know your mother as well as you, so you have the opportunity to do something which really makes her tick. You can take her to her favorite cafe or restaurant, or a performance by the singer or group she treasures above all others. Plus it won't be crowded with everyone else treating their mum at the same time!
Then there are the simple gestures that mean the world; a bouquet of blooming flowers, a home-cooked breakfast served in bed, or talking and walking in the park on a glorious summer’s day. For a day out that’s a bit quirkier, why not consider a local arts festival? This can help you gain a real understanding of what your mom has an eye for in life. She can tell you all about the pieces she likes and why she likes them. The day won’t just be about art, either. Festivals like these often have a whole range of other attractions added on to them, like artisan food trucks and pop-up bars serving drinks that may be unknown to you both. At festivals like these, you can spend the entire day in the company of one of the most important people in your life. Both of you will value the time spent together and memories for years to come.
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Why You Should Take This Trip Before You Turn 40
Some people say that life begins at 40, while others dread that big birthday. There’s no doubt that life changes in your 40s, it feels like your body behaves differently and you just don’t bounce back as easily as you used to. Sometimes it creeps up on you. However, there are serious benefits to getting over the big 4-0. Practically everyone has more money in their 40s than when they were younger, and feel more stable in their lives. With that said, there are some things that you should try and do before you turn 40. Number 1 on that list is camping. If you have never pitched a tent, slept in the great outdoors, and experienced the beauty of being so close to nature then it is a must-do. Why do we suggest that you do it before you’re 40? Mostly because a younger, able body finds it much, much easier. Sometimes when you go camping, nature doesn’t play nice and you may end up soaked to the bone or scorched out of your tent at dawn.
When you’re younger, it feels like part of the fun. As you grow older, those extra hours of sleep seem necessary so you may feel grumpy and miss out on the best parts. So how should you go about this trip? It’s up to you! You can jump in the car with your loved one and kids, even bring the dog if you want to. You are likely to have a camping spot no further than 90 minutes from wherever you live. Alternatively, you can take off to Europe, get a rail pass, and plan to camp in different spots across many different countries. It helps to be prepared though - get a good, warm sleeping bag, and a waterproof tent. Make sure you have a torch as it gets very dark in nature. A map is another must-have. You can add other luxuries if you like, but if you have to carry it all in a backpack, it might get heavy. This is a great trip to do with friends as you can look back at the memories you’ve made for years to come.
